Small problem....help???

Ok my husband and i have a good relationship....we get along great, very rarely fight, and generally are best friends BUT we have no ual relationship. What the hell should i do? Im needing but pretty sure he has ED and not having doesnt affect our relationship cuz we still get along great reguardless, Im just real horny and pls dont tell me to watch or get a vibrator cuz it jus dont take the place of a man and woman having ...any advice??